Tuesday, August 18, 2009
A Bittersweet Day
Labas! (Hi!) Sorry we didn't post yesterday ... we didn't end up doing too much. We tried going back to the bead shop and then going to the market, but both were closed ... because it was Monday? I guess!? So we did a lot of walking, criss-crossing Old Town. We went to a couple of book shops and found Kornita a few books ... one to help her with English and another about origami (she keeps coming up with all these folded works of art ... boats, frogs, etc ... we figured this was perfect for her!) Audruta was looking for a specific book, but neither shop carried it, so we will keep looking. We went to McDonald's for lunch (Audruta has only been there once and Kornita has never been there). What did they order? French fries. KC got a Big Mac ... aka "Big Tasty". Ha ha! Later we stopped at a coffee shop (Vero Coffee ... which actually has grande to-go coffee!) for iced mochas and we ordered the girls milkshakes. They had never had a milkshake before and from their smiles, I believe they were a hit! For dinner we tried a restaurant that our friend, Neringa, recommended called Marceliukes Kletis. What did Kornita order? French fries! Audruta ordered potato pancakes stuffed with meat (a common Lithuanian dish). I tried to order cepelini (zeppelins ... potatoes stuffed with meat ... another common dish), but they were not serving that just then. So KC and I both got "chicken pieces on skewer with sauce". It also came with rice and the sauce was some sort of yogurt mixture ... sounds weird, but it was good! According to KC, the portions here are just right for women and children. ;)
Today we met with Elona and our other lawyer, Egle. They are both very nice ladies! I was very nervous as this would be a deciding moment for Audruta. Don't get me wrong, it ain't over till the fat lady sings, but today would give us a good indication of where things stood. The verdict so far? They will come to America with us! This has not been an easy decision for Audruta. She is old enough to know how big of a deal this really is and she is, of course, sad about leaving everything she knows behind. Elona and Egle talked with the girls, telling them what to expect during the court hearing tomorrow. Then KC and I talked with Egle and found out what we needed to do. Sounds like we are just suppose to speak from our hearts, so even though we will be nervous, it should be fairly easy. I guess we'll see.
After the meeting, we went to CanCan Pizza for lunch ... I really wanted Kornita to eat something other than french fries! Then we went to the bead shop which is just a few doors down and made necklaces for the caregiver that the girls are closest to, Lima (yes, as in lima bean). During lunch Audruta started to cry when we asked her about her friends and I told her that it was okay to cry and be sad, we understood. So we also made necklaces for her two closest friends, Angelica and Samantha. Kornita must hang out with them too because she didn't have anyone she wanted to make necklaces for, but she helped Audruta.
Once back at the apartment, KC asked to see what they had made, so the girls showed him the necklaces. Then Audruta volunteered to show us her friends online! They have a site similar to FaceBook. The girls showed us all their friends and pictures of themselves. We both felt good about them sharing that with us. We also found out that Audruta has had a boyfriend for about 2 years ... no wonder the decision to go to America was so difficult! Two years is a long time for a teenager! We were also glad to see that she already has a good way to keep in contact with her friends ... we want to be very supportive of that since her friends are so important to her.
Well, now we are at the apartment. KC is reading and the girls are watching TV. We are trying to balance all of our activities with some downtime so we don't get too tired. It really is exhausting being out of your normal routine and we've all got this huge change ahead of us. Downtime is a good thing!
Thank you all for keeping us in your prayers! We have definitely felt them! Our court date tomorrow (Wed) is at 2:30 pm our time ... that would be 4:30 am Wednesday morning for you ... if you're an early bird! The girls are still able to change their minds too, so we appreciate all your prayers and support! It definitely helps knowing that we have such a wonderful group of family and friends that are praying with us!
Labas vakaras! (Good evening!)
Michele
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Today's blog is encouraging news! We'll keep praying, and tell everyone we see to pray, too!
Will the girls get to spend some more time with their friends and caregivers before they go? It's such a huge decision. Audrone will especially be in our thoughts and prayers. Tell the girls we are looking forward to meeting them!
Love you, Susie
I can feel Audruta's pain a tiny bit. It was so hard when dad moved us in my senior year, but new friends made the transition so much better. D.J. is that kind of friend. She is Junior Class President and knows everybody. She's ready to help Audruta. Also, Lynden HS is such a sports minded schoot/town that she will have that to get involved in. So many people are praying for you all. Give the girls a hug from us. We'll be up and praying at 4:30, believe me. Love, Mom M
WOW! Today Jason and I read your post and the feeling of...of...what is the word? Triumph? Happiness? Excitedness? Ecstacy?...all those feelings multiplied times 10 is what we felt! Because I am at work, I have to concentrate to keep from crying. You are right Michele, it isn't over until "the fat lady sings", but as Matt and Susie said, it is very encouraging. You all will continue to be in our thoughts and we will continue to hope for the best. Look forward to having you guys home and meeting the girls!
Always, Jason & Jocelyn
I'm so excited to hear the girls are planning to come home with you! It's great how understanding you two are regarding the girls' feelings and apprehensions. You really sound like parents...THEIR parents, and I'm sure they can see and feel the love you have for them. Good luck at court. I hope you're able to sleep tonight! So many thoughts must be going through your minds. I'll keep praying for you!
Praise God for this news!! Going to set my alarm for 4:30. Can't wait to hear the next update, and hear how everything at the court went.
The prayers are continuing ... for all four of you, as well as lawyers, judges, etc ... God's will WILL be done!
Let the girls know that their "future" youth leader is CRAZY EXCITED to have them around!!
B
So happy to hear that the girls are on board ; ) My alarm will be set for 4:30 to pray for you all. Mom and I had a great time dreaming up plans yesterday for the first annual "Houston Kids Camp" we hope to have next summer with Kyra, Gage, Audruta and Kornita. The kids are VERY excited to have cousins - Kyra especially. We love you very much and know you will do great in court! Luv, Auntie Julie (that has a nice ring to it!!!!)
I have been reading your blog since you have been in Lithuania. I am Michelle Vance's mom, and she gave me the link. I was so glad to read your encouraging post today. Both of you have done a wonderful job relating to the girls and considering their feelings. My thoughts and prayers have been and will be with you tomorrow. I wake up at 4:30 a.m. to get my husband off to work so will pray then and await your posting.
Wonderful news all the very best for court we will be praying from Down Under..
A message for the girls I have translated it below hope they understand my Lithuania language isn't the best (Bridget had to help me)
labas mergaites mano vardas Melanie ir priėmė dvi mergaitės iš Lietuva ir kovą mes namuose Australija 4 mėnesius dabar. Atsiprašome mano lietuvių kalbos kaip jis nėra labai geras, bet aš tikiuosi jūs galite suprasti ... Audronė ką jūs darote, yra labai drąsus ir žinome jums bijojo apie paliekant savo draugams ir visiems, kad yra susipažinę su jumis, mano mergaites veltinis tas pats. Jie vis dar rašo laiškus ir elektroninio pašto adresą savo draugams visą laiką ir vienas draugas dar atvyks į Kalėdų laiką! Dabar jūs turite puikią mama ir tėtis, kurie myli jus, rūpinasi jums ir padės jums amžinai. Jūs ir jūsų seselė turės vieni kitus ir taip pat dviejų tėvų dabar, kurie tave myli daugiau, nei galėjo įsivaizduoti. Aš myliu savo dukters daugiau negu nieko! Tai gerai jaustis liūdna ir verkti apie paliekant mano mergaites dar truputį liūdna kartais, bet kaip Ieva sakė vakar "Aš tave myliu Mumija ir Daddy, nes nors jos lietus kasdien yra kaip saulės"
Sėkmės šiandien Audronė ir Kornelija. Jūs tikrai gražių mergaičių.
"Hi girls my name is melanie and we adopted two girls from lithuania in march we have been home in australia for 4 months now. Please excuse my lithuanian language as it is not very good but I hope you can understand...Audrone what you are doing is very brave and we know you will feel scared about leaving your friends and all that is familiar to you, my girls felt the same. They still write letters and email thier friends all the time and one friend is even coming to visit at Christmas time! You now have a wonderful mum and dad who will love you, care for you and guide you forever. You and your little sister will have each other and also two parents now who will love you more than you could ever imagine. I love my daughters more than anything! It is okay to feel sad and cry about leaving my girls still get a little sad sometimes but as Eve said last night " I love you Mummy and Daddy because even though its raining everyday is like sunshine"
Good luck today Audrone and Kornelija. You are truly beautiful girls.
Dad and I will be up at 4:30 a.m. to pray for all of you and the judge and anyone else who may be involved. It's such a wonderful feeling to know our daughter and her husband have so many people who love and support them.
Love you, mom M.
PS Team Siffy will be praying hard, it will be 9:30pm Australian time when you go to court.
KC and Michele,
Again, the pics are great!!! I'll be praying in my sleep for you all. We look forward to seeing your girls and you back soon.
The Todd's
Wow! I'm so glad that I checked your blog tonight!!! Sending you all hugs and prayers for tomorrow!
Erin Thomsen
We are thinking of you now and sending all our prayers and positive wishes to you..its 8:45m here which is 1:45 in LT so you have 45 minutes to go. I have butterflies in my stomach for you all, my memories of court are still so vivid! I so hope you get your judgement today and an urgent application ( 40 day wait waived) if you applied for it. You will be a wonderful family!!!
Good luck
Blessings,
Team Siffy
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